The Naked Philosopher’s Philosophy…

Reality is the state of things as they actually exist, rather than as they may appear or may be thought to be. In its widest definition, reality includes everything that is and has being, whether or not it is observable or comprehensible. Okay then anyone want to do a ‘reality check’? Physicists the confounding cosmic Tinkerers, and philosophers, the confounding Tinkerers of words we thought we understood…

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The 15 Books….

This is quick. Don’t think long about it. List 15 books that you will always remember. The first 15 that come to mind in 15 minutes. Type in 15 friends, me included, because I’m interested in seeing which books you choose…

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The Success Principle….

64 Life Changing Principles From “The Success Principle” Book are following:-

1. Take 100% Responsibility Of Your Life

If you continue doing the same things over and over, you will get  the same results. If you want to change or improve your life, you need  to take different steps. You cannot achieve different things doing the  same activities.

2. Be Clear Why You Are Here

Each of us is born with a specific life purpose. To be on purpose means  you are doing what you love to do, what you are good at and what is  important for you. You need to find out your purpose of life by  discovering your talents and strengths.

3. Decide What You Want

Once you have known what is your major purpose in your life, you have  to decide what you want to do to achieve your life purpose. You have to  decide where you want to be, what possessions do you want to acquire.  Most people don’t get what they want because they never take time to  define exactly what they want from their life.

4. Unleash The Power Of Goal-Setting

You can easily achieve your life goals if you do this simple exercise  each morning, just write your major goals each morning. It is  important to re-write your goals, write your goals in the present tense  as you have already in the possession of the thing you desire.

5. Ask! Ask! Ask!

If someone has achieved the same goals that you want to achieve in your  life, ask him to give you advice about how he has achieved that goal  and what actions you need to take. Mostly successful people like to  share their experience with others. Ask successful people the secrets of  their success, if someone refuses to tell you, don’t worry just ask  someone else. Be clear and specific and ask repeatedly if you need to.

 

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Happiness in Marriage….

I took the time recently to look at my friends, both male and female.   And I wondered–are they any happier because they have children–and I have none? I see that some are…and some aren’t. Children it seems, do not determine whether or not the relationship is good or bad…it doesn’t make it better or worse.  But it does seem that children or not, we seem to think we have the right to control each other. We still think that the promise to live happily ever after must be kept–at all costs–even at the cost of our daily unhappiness.  (paraphrased from the Zahir)

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The Frogs and the Tower

There once was a bunch of tiny frogs…

… who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants…

The race began…

Honestly, no-one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as:

“Oh, WAY too difficult!!”

“They will NEVER make it to the top”.

“Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!”

The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one…

… Except for those who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher…

The crowd continued to yell

“It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!”

More tiny frogs got tired and gave up…

…But ONE continued higher and higher and higher…

This one wouldn’t give up!

At the end, everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who, after a big effort, was

the only one who reached the top!

THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it?

A contestant asked the tiny frog how the one who succeeded had found the strength to reach the goal?

It turned out…

That the winner was deaf.

Thank You Payal–you always have such wonderful posts….

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Chapter 11

Decision Psychology

 Now let’s look at another area, an area that requires Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee to make at times, life-altering choices. It has been stated in numerous articles, papers, and research studies that an unconscious rule of decision-making is that past experience=future choices. This many times interferes with the Tweedles ability to properly analyze potential risks–even when the evidence is right in front of them.  The Tweedles many times know the risk and danger a certain decision might bring—but they make the decision anyway.  A recent success or failure can wreak havoc on the Tweedles decision-making process.  Sometimes just “wanting” to do something can overwhelm all other practical considerations.  The Tweedles tend to make decisions based on what will reward them, and in making these decisions, they many times ignore important information.  Research studies in decision psychology seem to indicate that with the ever-increasing number of choices that the Tweedles face— the Tweedles tend to choose badly. And adding to these bad decisions is the fact that the Tweedles are not very good at learning from their mistakes.

In the field of decision-making psychology and behavioral economics referred to previously, a great deal of work has been done by Daniel Kahneman, Daniel Gilbert, Tim Wilson, George Loewenstein and others on the gap between “decision utility” (If I buy this vintage sports car it will make me happier) and “experienced utility” (I bought this vintage sports car and I feel no happier at all).

Why does this happen so often? Using the example above, a Tweedle truly believes that he will never get used to owning a vintage sports car–that the initial thrill will persist–but it quickly disappears. And he doesn’t appear to learn from the experience the next time a similar decision-making situation comes up. By the time the positive feeling from the car has worn off, Tweedle is off after the next big thing.  Gilbert and Wilson call this “miswanting”.  Ever wonder why it is that the Tweedles so quickly lose their appreciation of once-new pleasures? Have you ever been in their shoes–experienced this same situation?  This is a situation that the Tweedles encounter all too regularly.  How about we look at this example: when it first became possible for Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum to get a wide variety of fruits and vegetables at all times of year, they thought they had found heaven. They thought that this feeling would last indefinitely, that every time they went shopping they would marvel at the variety and abundance of choices. However, after a period of time, they started taking these “choices” for granted and would eventually get annoyed if the out of season, non-local fruit and vegetables bought in February weren’t perfect, sweet and juicy.  Having lost their appreciation for these “choices”, they move on to something else and the cycle repeats itself.

This set of examples also helps explain why dramatic consumption increases in affluent nations have not caused a corresponding increase in what is commonly referred to as the “happiness factor”.

Let us now move on to another topic–a topic that has been deservedly getting a lot of attention these days–healthcare “choices”.  This is an area that presents circumstances in which Tweedle cannot possibly be expected to choose wisely—not least of which is when our Tweedles counterpart (Dee or Dum) becomes very ill. The idea of choice in secondary healthcare is in reality an illusion when these types of choices are applied to real life situations. A study which included all NHS (National Health Service) admissions in a universal health care environment found than three-quarters of the admissions are the result of emergencies–urgent or maternity cases–which lend themselves to situations “where patients are generally unable to shop around”. Professor Julian Le Grand writes in his book, Motivation, Agency and Public Policy, that making sensible choices about healthcare is difficult for several reasons: lack of technical knowledge; weakness of will; being in a highly emotional state; or lacking experience of the options offered. In addition, it can be shown that in the majority of cases where medical decisions have to be made; Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee are more than willing to delegate authority (and choice) to medical experts. Research by U.S. surgeon and writer Atul Gawande shows that although two out of three people say they would want to choose their own treatment if they got cancer, among cancer patients themselves, only 12 per cent actually do so.  Additionally, when “choosing” to use public or private services, the Tweedles responsibility to make the right “choice” becomes even greater. If Tweedle Dee has the option to “choose” a hospital and doctor for Tweedle Dum’s heart surgery, how would Tweedle Dee feel if the operation goes wrong? In a slightly different scenario, if a Tweedles child has to go to public school, this non-choice decision may well provoke anger at the school and/or the child, but the blame is not on Tweedle Dee or Tweedle Dum:  They had no “choice” in the matter.

The danger of regret in whatever decision ultimately is made would normally not be a big issue—-if only Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee typically made wise decisions.

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Listen to Your Heart….

“Why do we have to listen to our hearts?” the boy asked, when they had made camp that day.

“Because, wherever your heart is, that is where you’ll find your treasure.”

“But my heart is agitated,” the boy said. “It has its dreams, it gets emotional, and it’s become passionate over a woman of the desert. It asks things of me, and it keeps me from sleeping many nights, when I’m thinking about her.”

“Well, that’s good. Your heart is alive. Keep listening to what it has to say.”

“My heart is a traitor,” the boy said to the alchemist, when they had paused to rest the horses. “It doesn’t want me to go on.”

“That makes sense. Naturally it’s afraid that, in pursuing your dream, you might lose everything you’ve won.”

“Well, then, why should I listen to my heart?”

“Because you will never again be able to keep it quiet. ”

“You mean I should listen, even if it’s treasonous?”

“Treason is a blow that comes unexpectedly. If you know your heart well, it will never be able to do that to you. Because you’ll know its dreams and wishes, and will know how to deal with them.

“My heart is afraid that it will have to suffer,” the boy told the alchemist one night as they looked up at the moonless sky.

“Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams, because every second of the search is a second’s encounter with God and with eternity.”

From “The Alchemist”

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Theocracy in America

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The Trouble With….

“The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.” – Bertrand Russell

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Chapter 10

Choice Challenges
“Choice” is such an unquestioned good that in virtually all aspects of life, the accepted wisdom is that more choice is better. In fact, the modern array of options that require us to make choices on a daily basis is at best a mixed blessing. The proliferation of choices in a modern society such as ours goes well beyond things such as groceries or TV programs to some of our most significant personal decisions. Young, well-educated Tweedles in particular have unprecedented freedom to make whatever they want of their lives: to decide where to live, what to do, whom to “friend”, to whom (or whether) to marry—a myriad of choices!
It’s all too much, just too much, they say, and throw up their hands in despair. This type of reaction is also alluded to and documented in the latest line of research in social decision-making and choice. Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum are facing a crisis of choice. They’re increasingly unhappy, riddled with anxiety and regret, precisely because they have so much freedom to decide what to do with their money and their lives. Some choice may be good, but too much seems to be unmanageable.
There is growing evidence showing that it is hard for Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum to deal with too much choice. A number of studies suggest that while Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum are able to make sensible decisions between say, six options—it seems that options of 30 or more causes them to back off or “choose” arbitrarily.
“As the number of available choices increases, the autonomy, control and liberation this variety brings is powerful and positive,” says Barry Schwartz, author of the book, The Paradox of Choice: Why More is Less. “But as the number of choices keeps growing, negative aspects of having a multitude of options begin to appear. As choices grow further, the negatives escalate until we become overloaded. At this point, choice no longer liberates, but debilitates. It might even be said to tyrannize.”
Schwartz cites studies showing that when The Tweedles are presented with fewer options, they are more likely to take one of them and feel more satisfied with their selection, as opposed to being offered a wide range of choices. Financial service companies for example, have learned through experience that offering hundreds of options makes it almost impossible for Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum to make a decision, so they whittle down the available choices to about half a dozen “recommended” products.
It seems odd to suggest in a market society such as ours that fewer choices might be better suited to making “smart” choices. In reality though, Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum do not have the time, energy or intelligence to weigh the pros and cons of an ocean of possibilities before coming to a conclusion. In fact, trying to do so will put them on a direct route to misery. Additional studies in this area have shown that people, possibly someone like Tweedle Dee, who are “satisficers”, (those who can accept a “good enough” option), are much happier than people like Tweedle Dum, a “maximizer”, who scours the pages of magazines, websites and other information sources in search of the ideal product.
Lifestyle Choices
Many times choice has an unwanted consequence for Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee: regret. For example, If Tweedle Dee chooses Paris over Milan or Florence as a vacation destination, it follows then that Tweedle Dee must give up what good things the other locations have to offer. This kind of choice is what economists refer to as an “opportunity cost”. Another example could be a situation where the choices are unlimited—say a weekend in any city in the world: the chances of feeling another choice might have been better than the one finally chosen increase significantly. To paraphrase a well-known saying, the more grass Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum have to choose from, the greater the likelihood is that some of it will look greener.
Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum’s lifestyles choices pose the same dilemma as the vacation destination examples. Try to put yourself in Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum’s shoes and see how you would decide when looking at this group of choices: Tweedles friends include married parents, unmarried singles, a gay couple and a childless career couple. The odds are that one or more of these groups (including the Tweedles) are looking at one of the others and thinking to themselves that one or more of those groups have made a better lifestyle “choice”.
And while the Tweedles value the freedom to make their own decisions, the downside of choice is that they must take responsibility for failure as well as success. The “success of modernity turns out to be bitter-sweet, and everywhere we look, it appears that a significant contributing factor is the over-abundance of choice,” says Schwartz. “Having too many choices produces psychological distress, especially when combined with the desire to have the best of everything—to maximize.”
Schwartz suggests: “When there are many options available, the chances increase that there is a really good one out there, and you feel that you ought to be able to find it. When the option you actually settle on proves disappointing, you regret not having chosen more wisely.” After reading this quote and thinking about his “choice” of words, I then tried to find something that I could relate it to. For some reason I keep recalling the dilemma, choice and result of a decision that was made when faced with a multitude of options. It was when Indiana Jones is asked by the Templar Knight to make a “wise choice” when selecting the Grail chalice that will guarantee their escape from the Temple. Could a “normal” person possibly have made the correct “choice”?
Contrasting Choices
Traditional wisdom teaches that brands win market share by offering a wide variety of products, increasing the chance of exposure to an ever-wider variety of customers. But how happy do you think Tweedle Dee really is when trying to find a head cold remedy at a pharmacy that offers an overwhelming number of competing formulas, each only slightly different from the others on the shelf? I’ll bet the consequence of this choice alone is enough to give Tweedle Dee a headache!
The belief that “variety is good” is not always true, argues Harvard Business School professor John Gourville in “Overchoice and Assortment Type: When and Why Variety Backfires.” This research paper, co-written by professor Dilip Soman of the University of Toronto’s Rotman School of Management, demonstrates that sometimes offering too many choices prompts the confused Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee to put off a purchase or even to buy something from a competitor because of “less” choice.
Research presented earlier illustrated that certain types of variety can actually overwhelm Tweedle Dee, or make Tweedle Dum question their choice. Sometimes this can lead to choice deferral; Tweedle Dee and Dum simply give up, and their “choice” ends up being delaying any choice at all. Other times, it can drive the Tweedles toward another brand that offers a simpler assortment. In essence, what both Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee are saying is, “We can’t decide which product to choose from the many offered by Brand A, and so we will choose from the one or two products offered by Brand B.” Have any of you made a decision using this type of choice? I know I have.
The term “assortment type” refers to products that vary in ways such as size, speed or capacity. Do the Tweedles want more or less of this type of variation? This type of arrangement seems to make it easier for Tweedle Dee and Dum to make good choices. When Tweedle Dum and Tweedle Dee go shopping for Levi’s 501 jeans for example, the fact that there are a variety of combinations of length and waist sizes allows them to find the one that fits best. However, they first needed to make the choice of 501 jeans— from the many different styles and cuts offered by Levi’s and other similar brands.
This leads into the second assortment type–one that involves tradeoffs that need to be added into the decision-making process. Examples would be laptop computers that vary in configuration, with one having a CD/DVD and another having a wireless modem. Food selections in a restaurant would be another example. Choosing one of several alternatives provides you with some features, but forces you to give up others. This type of variety tends to confuse Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum. Consequently, they frequently tend to make bad choices. An alternative to reducing the available choices would be to find a way to help the Tweedles navigate the variety in choices. Sometimes identifying alternatives by their use rather than their features can help the Tweedles made “good” choices. For instance, Dell sometimes identifies their desktop computers in terms of the intended user. The resulting choices are “gaming” desktops, “home office” desktops or “internet ready” desktop models. Rather than have to make individual choices about what individual features are required, Tweedle Dee and Dum only have to make a choice of the desktop unit that meets their perceived needs. Now, after going through this discussion of “choices”, do you think that the Tweedles would prefer to go back to a world with fewer options? To a world where choices are “made” for them, with no personal input? Admittedly, dealing with lots of choices can cause confusion, frustration and regret. But would you and the Tweedles really be happier, if all of those abundant choices disappeared?

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